27 Oct Reconnection Is More Than a DNA Result, or a Heritage Tour
Photo: Nana Kwame on Pexels. Illustrative image, not from the ceremony described.
“Welcomed by name.”
That’s how Subrina Starke, co-founder of the Diasporan WelHouse, described the arrival at the Nkyinkyim Museum in Nuhalenya, near Ada, Ghana. According to Africanews, African Americans and other members of the diaspora gathered there for an ancestral veneration ceremony. Another visitor said he found a people who remembered him before he arrived.
I wasn’t there. I read the reports. And I keep returning to those two details, because they’re the opposite of what most of us are sold.
We’re sold a result. A percentage on a screen, a region on a map, a plane ticket with a good itinerary. Those can be starting points. They aren’t a reconnection.
What did the people at Nkyinkyim actually do?
According to the reports, participants came from Suriname, the UK, the US and Nigeria. They wore white. They marched, sang and danced. They poured libations and made offerings. Before the ceremony, they took part in workshops and restorative sessions led by traditional experts. The museum’s founder, the Ghanaian artist Kwame Akoto-Bamfo, said calling the names of ancestors restores what slavery took.
That is a very different picture from showing up with a camera.
The question chain
If a DNA result isn’t reconnection, what is?
Who invited you? A result invites you to nothing. People invite you.
What do you do when you arrive? Ritual gives the visit a shape. It tells you that you aren’t a customer.
What do you owe once you’ve left? Efua Irene Agyeman Hin, another WelHouse co-founder, said reparations matter at the level of government, and justice also means everyday work like teaching children and preserving traditions. She called that repair too.
Three parts of a meaningful return
- Be welcomed, and let the welcome change you. Arrive by invitation. Learn the names, the language, the protocol before you land. Sit down before you speak.
- Remember with evidence. Names have to be real. The ancestors I research appear in manifests, census pages, church records. When you can call a real name, a ritual becomes a testimony.
- Stay in relationship. Come back. Support what the community is building. Send what you learn. One trip that ends at the airport is a visit. Years of showing up is a relationship.
What I’d do with a DNA result
Treat it as a lead. Take it to the records. Find the people with names and dates. Then, and only then, ask who in the places you’ve traced might welcome you, and what you can offer in return.
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